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There was a woman who had been diagnosed with a terminal illness and had been given three months to live. So as she was getting her things "in order", she contacted her Vicar and had him come to her house to discuss certain aspects of her final wishes. She told him which songs she wanted sung at the service, what scriptures she would like read, and what outfit she wanted to be buried in. The woman also requested to be buried with her favourite Bible. Everything was in order and the Vicar was preparing to leave when the woman suddenly remembered something very important to her. "There's one more thing," she said excitedly. "What's that?" came the Vicar's reply. "This is very important," the woman continued. "I want to be buried with a fork in my right hand." The Vicar stood looking at the woman, not knowing quite what to say. "That surprises you, doesn't it?" the woman asked. "Well to be honest, I'm puzzled by the request," said the Vicar. The woman explained. "In all my years of attending church socials and potluck dinners, I always remember that when the dishes of the main course were being cleared, someone would inevitably lean over and say, 'Keep your fork'. It was my favourite part because I knew that something better was coming... like velvety chocolate cake or deep-dish apple pie. Something wonderful, and with substance! So, I just want people to see me there in that coffin with a fork in my hand and I want them to wonder "What's with the fork?" Then I want you to tell them: "Keep your fork... the best is yet to come". The Vicar's eyes welled up with tears of joy as he hugged the woman good-bye. He knew this would be one of the last times he would see her before her death. But he also knew that the woman had a better grasp of heaven than he did. She knew that something better was coming. At the funeral people were walking by the woman's coffin and they saw the pretty dress she was wearing and her favourite Bible and the fork placed in her right hand. Over and over, the Vicar heard the question "What's with the fork?" And over and over he smiled. During his message, the Vicar told the people of the conversation he had with the woman shortly before she died. He also told them about the fork and about what it symbolised to her. The Vicar told the people how he could not stop thinking about the fork and told them that they probably would not be able to stop thinking about it either. He was right. So the next time you reach down for your fork, let it remind you oh so gently, that the best is yet to come. Submitted by the late Sister Alice of All Saints Convent, Oxford |
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